Dear Steve and Shirley, I am absolutely at my breaking point right now. My husband and I have been together for three years and everything was going well until about four months ago. We never completely stopped having sex, but there has definitely been an emotional disconnect. I never before felt like I had a reason not to trust him, so I've never snooped through any things even though I've always know the password for the phone and email. Well, the recent change in him finally got to me and I went through his phone. I discovered that not only has he slept with someone else, but she is his cousin. I was absolutely disgusted! I won't go into details about the full text, but he called her his Freak. She asked him if he had told anyone about them. He said no and she had better keep her mouth shut. They carried on some more about some of the more explicit things they had done and talked about how it would have only gotten better if we wouldn't have moved away. Needless to say, I'm hurt, angry, scared, and confused! I tried to act normal, but he reads me like a book, so after hours of him asking "baby, what's wrong?" I exploded and stormed out of the house screaming about nothing! He still doesn't know what the issue is, only that I won't stop crying. I'm just so confused right now. Should I even try to talk to him about what I saw? Or should I just go? I mean, we are both 30 years old. So we are definitely old enough to know better and they both seemed to be amused and turned on by the fact that they are cousins who are sleeping together.
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