Good Morning Steve and Shirley, I have been married for 14 years to a pretty good guy. He works hard to support the family. We have 3 kids and he constantly tells us how much he loves me and our children. The issue comes in with his emotional cheating. I'm not certain if he has slept with someone or not, but over the past 10 years, there have been issues with other women. I recently found an email from a woman he used to work with. The conversation was how he should have had sex with her before she moved away and how when she comes to town, they can hang in her hotel room. When confronted, he says it's a game...We're in our 40s, I don't have time for games. I also have seen another woman that lives out of state and sends him nude pictures of herself. I'm pretty easy-going and I don't let much bother me. I give permission to go to the strip club and even watch porn if he wants. I don't care, but now these woman are tangible and easily accessible. I've checked his email on a few occasions (he's unaware). I'm at a point I want to leave, but I'm concerned about our kids and how that will affect them. I guess I'm confused on how he can profess his undying love for the family, but presents himself as a single man with these women.
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