Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 32 years old man and a college graduate. I met a woman 5 years ago on the job. We had different situations but I fell in love with her. She has two kids with different daddies. At the time I did not have any. We had a lot of things in common and hit it off. I didn't like the different daddies because they were no good and did not help. A lot of times I questioned how she would get herself involved with guys like this. Going into the relationship, I knew it was a package deal. I finally moved in and a year later she was expecting. I thought I knew who she was but more started to come out. I decided to move out because her past was questionable and she discussed how she used to use cocaine and was beat by her boyfriends and was a lil wild. But, she is carrying my lil girl and I want to be a full time father, not a weekend father, so I'm going to make this work. During an exam, we found out that she has herpes and she blames me. I got the test and I am negative! No Herpes! With my relationship in turmoil, all I can do is think about her past, but I want to be a full-time father. Steve, Shirley, What do I do? I love her, but this is not how I imagined my life to be.

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