Dear Shirley, I have this live-in boyfriend, who can't seem to understand his faults. What I mean by that is, he blames everybody for his problems. He blames my kids for living in our home. He has threaten to kill them, me and others. He has gotten into it with my sons on numerous occasions. He ran through some of the money that I gave him to purchase a car. We have moved 3 times this year because he is not contributing to the house hold. My sons moved in to help me but that keeps us arguing about them being there. Even through he has a drug issue, I stayed with him to help him get through it. It did not work. I moved in with my son to get away from him and the BS only to find myself dealing with him threatening me and telling me what he's going to do to my family. For the last few months or so, I have made it clear that I do not want to be with him. It's not working. You say why not get the police involved, I just did not want to send another black man to JAIL. Signed What the heck!

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