Im a 20 yr old woman. Me and my ex are best friends. We have decided to be best friends after a 3 1/2yr relationship. She's curretly wit someone as well as I. I told my current girlfriend this in the beginning before we ever made it official. So she would have the opportunity to let me know her feelings. She said she didnt think ex's should or could be best friends and she's not best friends with none of her ex's, but she loves me and accepts my situation. They speak and have even been around each other and showed the utmost respect for one another. Then six months into our relationship I find out that one of her so called best friends is someone whom she dated, not for very long but they still dated. She didnt tell me. I had to add two and two together and feel in the blanks by asking questions. Then she finally told me everything. I was furious becuase all along she had this best friend who was and ex and didnt tell me until I put it all together. I expressed my frustration by stating to her it wasnt the fact they were all of a sudden best friends, but the length of time it took for me to find out without being told from her directly but by facebook. So did I have the right to be mad because she waited six months to tell me or should I let it roll off my shoulder because me and one of my ex's are best friends.
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