Hello Morning Crew, I'm a 26 year old male who's been dating my gf for 2 years now. She's definitely the one Mr. Harvey, right b4 I met her I decided not to settle on ANYTHING. Not to be superficial, it was the little things(flaws) I saw that lead me to lose attraction in the past. This woman who's 20yrs old, falls short in no category. We started our relationship sexually active and of course that was spectacular. My gf grew up in the church. She has me in the church, well God does but I love being there with her. She never wants to disappoint her parents, so one day about a year and a half in said she wanted to stop sex until marriage, because she feels like a hypocrite. What could I do? I Can't be a jerk and leave her over sex thats not cool. The problem is I want to marry the woman and I can afford a ring, propose and make it the bomb! She says she is young and isn't ready for being married, although she wants to marry me eventually. Her pops would tower over Mr. Harvey and don't play that stuff, so I don't want to upset him by asking for her hand too early. He likes me but he always makes the threats about not treating her wrong. Today I was contemplating cheating and thinking thats messed up but what can you expect men are survivalist, she's backing me in a corner! I remembered ol dude on your previous SL who brilliantly closed the bedroom door and cut on the tv and left out. lol (You gotta give it to that guy lol he really thought that one through). I don't feel like bringing in the drama of other women, hiding things, cuz we suck at it. I get to sleep next to her sexy and I am dreaming all the time! She'll occasionally give in and give it up but then she says we should stop at the end. Its like I don't know what to do. I can't marry her, make love to her, or cheat. I know she's not cheating its always a possibility but lets just assume thats not an issue because I seriously doubt it. She's not a partier, she don't have a ton of friends, she's either in school, working or with me so I have to get to the point; How would you handle it?
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