Hi Steve and Shirley, I'm going to get straight to the point. I am sleeping with a married man. A little back ground over ten years ago a met this man while I was in college. We hit it off good we were more than friends but never defined our relationship. I left to come back home we keep in touch cause we did consider each other as some one that we really wanted in each others lives. I ended up getting married. We still kept in contact. Fastfowarding three years ago me and my husband seperated. My old friend started opening up about how he felt about me and i feel for him hard, cause i felt the same. After my divorce we started meeting up because we do not stay in the same town. I was thinking about trying to make a long distance relationship work and realy go all in. And then one night i decided to check records regarding if he was married or not. I remember it being mention some years back but i was told that it never happen. Well it did after finding this information out I was crushed He had kept this from me for over six years. It made me question if we really was friends or not. if he had of told me from the beginning i don't think I would be sleeping with him know, but my feelings was to deep. I was thinking that i could make something of this flame. I did address the issue with him and even tried to walk away. He told me he didn't want to tell me cause he knew I wouldn't be down for it and he really wanted me in his life. But after a month or two, He pulled me back in with sweet nothings of he really need me, he loves, and how our relationship is special if i want to admit or not. I have ask him to think about what we are doing, would he be ready for the consequences. He never gives me an answer. And for some reason we can't seem to let go of each other, well at least i can't find a way to cut my string from him. Please what can i do to get out of this situation and can we still be friends without being lovers.
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Shermain Miles, Chicago Woman, Arrested 396 Times Since 1978
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A Chicago woman who's racked up nearly 400 arrests over 35 years -- while using at least 83 different aliases -- is currently behind bars in downstate Illinois.
But considering how she's bobbed and weaved in and out of the justice system for nearly four decades, one question remains: How long, after she is released, until she winds up imprisoned again?
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Oprah Winfrey will donate $12 million to the Smithsonian's forthcoming National Museum of African American History and Culture, it was announced Tuesday.
Winfrey previously contributed $1 million to the museum in 2007. The OWN CEO's $13 million is the institution's largest donation.
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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 26 years old, young man that recently found myself in a huge dilemma. My ex-girlfriend (23 years old) and I have been together for a year now, but I questioned the relationship the entire time. After being warned from several sources that she was a "bad girl", I decided to find out for myself. My homeboy and I came up with a plan for him to meet up with her and make advances toward her to test her reaction. As we expected, she was receptive to his advances and flirted with him. This was enough for me to call off the relationship. Fast forward to last week, this is where everything turned ugly. I was out hanging with my homeboy and a group of friends when he admitted that the night he met up with my girlfriend, they went all the way. This turned into a heated argument and almost led to a fight. Steve and Shirley, what do I do? I've been so stressed about this that I missed all my exams a week before I was set to graduate with my masters degree. I can't help but feel like I brought this on myself. I am hurt that my best friend would sleep with my girlfriend and to make matters worst, I am still in love with this "bad" girl.
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Former NFL receiver Chad Johnson was all set to avoid jail time with a plea deal in a Broward County, Fla., courtroom. He and his attorney were on the verge of striking a plea deal with Judge Kathleen McHugh that would have Johnson avoiding the slammer despite probation violations. Last August, Johnson pleaded no contest last August to a domestic violence charge after he allegedly head-butted his then-wife, reality TV star Evelyn Lozada, during an argument. Johnson was arrested in May for failing to meet with his probation officer.
Johnson had his day in court Monday morning, but things went south very quickly just after he playfully slapped his attorney on the butt on Judge McHugh's time. McHugh accused Johnson of failing to take the proceedings seriously after the entire courtroom broke out in laughter, sentenced him to 30 days in jail, and extended his probation to Dec. 21, 2013.
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Woman allegedly stabs man to death with stiletto heel
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A Texas woman stabbed a man to death with the heel of her own shoe, police said.
Ana Lilia Trujillo, 44, repeatedly jabbed a stiletto into her 59-year-old victim's body at a high-rise luxury condo where University of Houston staff live, it's alleged.
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