I LIKE THAT, "I'MA BUY A HOUSE RIGHT NEXT DOOR TO YOU & I'M PUTTING THIS FINGER RIGHT IN THE YARD"...THAT'S RIGHT UP MY ALLEY
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My uncle is married with a wife and 6 children. With three daughters. He grew up in Chicago Housing Projects. He obtained gainful employment and moved his family out of the projects into a better living situation. He’s been on the job for eight years and his wife is employed. The children are all doing above average in school. He’s a good provider for his family. However, when I come to his house the way he talks to his daughters makes me cringe and is upsetting! His b_ _ch (the B word)training program started when his youngest was 5, middle 7 and oldest at 10 years old. He calls them b_ _ches (the B word) throughout his conversations with them. These are examples of his interactions with them. B_ _ch (the B word) go to the refrigerator and get my beer, b_ _ch (the B word) sweep this floor, b_ _ch (the B word) take this five dollars and go to the store, come here b_ _ch (the B word) etc. Watching them smile when their dad says this to them is interesting to say the least. He says his reasoning for calling them b_ _ches (the B word) repeatedly is to get them use to it so when others call them b_ _ches (the B word) it won’t bother them because they will be use to it. He says it works because when he was growing up, he mother would call his brothers and sisters names and when she would get angry grab her crotch and repeatedly tell them to kiss her butt. You read it correctly. He contributes that to helping him not respond to name calling. Having daughters of my own, this technique is unacceptable but you can’t change how another man runs his home. Should I stop being concerned about it?
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WITH EVERYTHING THIS MAN HAS DONE, SINCE HE'S BEEN ACQUITTED...CAN'T NOBODY SEE HOW HE KILLED THIS CHILD...IF YOU PULL A GUN ON YOUR GIRLFRIEND, YOU MEAN TO TELL ME YOU WON'T SHOT THIS BOY...AND YOUR WIFE BEFORE THAT, YOU WON'T SHOT THIS BOY...A GUILTY MAN GOT OFF...I WONDER ALL THE SUPPORTERS OF GEORGE ZIMMERMAN, HOW THEY FEELING TODAY
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PLEASE UNDERSTAND, MOMS MABLEY IS THE BOMB DIGGETY...SHE WAS THE 1ST BLACK WOMAN I EVERY SAW ON T.V. DOING COMEDY, ON THE ED SULLIVAN SHOW
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Dear Shirley and Steve I am in a really tough spot.(I am changing some of the details in this letter because my husband loves your show) My husband and I have been married for seven years. We have been trying to have a baby for the last five years. I have gone to specialist, I have taken drugs and supplements trying to get pregnant. I thought that maybe it was him that had the problem but he assured me that it was not him seeing that he have a son from a previous relatationship. I asked if there could be a problem with the parenity of his son and he cussed me out saying that his son looks exactly like him and his ex-girl and he had been high school sweethearts and that she would not have cheated on him. I must admit that his son looks just like him so I let it go. Two years ago his cousin move in with us. His cousin is from up europe and felt like there was more jobs available in the US where we live. I agreed to let him come stay with us for six month until he got on his feet. At first it was great having him live with us. He immediately found a job and he was able to help us with alot of the bills, I was also able to quit my job and return to school to get my master degree. He works third shift. My husband works first in his own business he says we will be millionaires by the time we turn 35. I go to school in the evenings. So basically I would get up in the morning and cook breakfast for my husband before he left for work and I would make sure his "cousin" would have breakfast also. His "cousin" would always make comments like "you are a great wife", "I hope when I find a wife she is like you" I would laugh it off and introduce him to friends and family memebers hoping he would find him a good wife. He would alway buy me clothes, gifts leave me extra money basically anything I wanted. Looking back now I see how he would study me and meet my every need. One morning my husband and I got into a big fight about money. When his "cousin" came home I was a mess, I cried and poured my heart out to him. He began to hold me and one thing led to another and we end up sleeping together. He became like a drug to me. I love my husband but I am obessed with his "cousin". I found out last month that I am pregnant my husband is so happy but I am afraid that the baby is not his. I talked to his "cousin" and he told me that my husbands first child is not my husbands but the baby belongs to him as well. I was crushed, I asked him if he slept with all of his cousins lovers and he said yes most of them. He said that my husbands problem is he worries about provided for his family rather than enjoying his family. I asked him if they had ever fought about this and he said my husband is clueless. I believe this because not once has he ever question our behavior. I told him that now that he has a job it is time for him to go. My husband is mad at me for insisting that he leave saying I should let him stay thru the holidays and now that I am pregnant he can help out with the baby. I want to tell my husband about all of this but his "cousin" say why ruin his happiness. We are happy and my husband is lavishing me with everything I want now that I am pregnant. I just hate all of the lies and I still cant keep my hands off of his "cousin". I just need to know what should I do? I have not told anyone not even my best friend. Everyone thinks that my husband and I have the prefect relationship. Whats gonna happen when he wants another child? He has already hinted at this. I told him we will have to see how this goes first. How can I tell him that his "cousin" is the father of both of his children? His "cousin" does not have any other children. He says he will take it to his grave. I dont want to hurt anyone but he needs to know. My husband even thinks that because his "cousin" does not have children that we should allow him to be the god father. This made me mad. My husband can't be this stupid.
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