Dear Steve and Shirley, I have written you all in the past and was very shocked to hear the responses from you and Steve as well as the listening audience. I took heed to what you all said. My situation was this, I am married and had an affair with a married man. We were always crazy about one another but never were intimate. Well, a few years back we hooked up and had the most intense affair for about six months, but then he backed off and left me wondering what I did. He never really told me the reason. Steve noted that I probably was not as "good" as I thought I was. LOL! Well, that was not true. This man confirms this every time we speak plus, I know I got skills! So that is not the issue. We stay in touch every so often via text or the phone. Six or seven months ago, he called me to explain to me why he backed off like he did. He told me that he was falling in love with me and that it was best he step away from the situation. We talked about how we felt about one another and left it at that. Well, I got another call from him the other day just to talk. He asked me how my husband and I are doing and I told him that we are fine. He again admitted that he fell for me and that is what happened to us the last time. So here we are again, we want to be together, but know it is so wrong. I am ready to cut off all contact with this man. I have had so much time to think about what I did. I feel ashamed. But, I just have this feeling that keeps drawing me to this man. What should I do? I want to tell him this so that he understands we can never be friends because of our past actions. I need help.
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