Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 25 year old woman who has been seeing an AMAZING man for the past 2 years. We are both the same age, originally from the same hometown, and have a lot of things in common. We've had our ups and downs, but I can finally say that we are now in love with one another. Things are getting really serious. We are even talking about marriage and kids later on down the line. I have never been in love with someone like this before. I can honestly say that I can see myself spending the rest of my life with him. As good as this relationship may seem, I find myself doubting some things at times. He is the only man that I have been with sexually, even though I have had OTHER forms of intimacy with men before him. As we get deeper and deeper into our relationship, I find myself wondering if I am missing out on sexual experiences with other men. I honestly cant say that our sex life is "all that" because I don't have anything to compare it to. I do know that I am not satisfied, so I can only assume I haven't received the best yet. I really don't want to be with anyone else, but I would hate to marry him in a few years and always wonder what sex would be like with someone else. Would I eventually cheat? Would I leave him? Will my sexual appetite EVER be filled? When we are making love or having foreplay, I often fantasize about intimate moments with other men just to "enjoy myself". I get tired of hearing about my friends and their risque sex life with this guy and the other, talking about the "best and worst they've ever had." I'm also scared that if I DO have sex with someone else and it's the best thing since sliced bread, i might not want to be with my man anymore. I really just want to get it out of the way so I won't have a wandering eye if we ever tie the knot. I obviously can't bring this up to my boyfriend, because that would be like asking him if I can cheat. Please HELP! WHAT SHOULD I DO?
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