Dear Doug,

Your listeners are really going to have a good time talking trash about me but o well I need the help.
 
Doug I am in my early 40’s and I am a self assured, confidant woman who speaks her mind and has very few friends because of it. I don’t cut corners or mince my words. I tell it like it is all the time and if you don’t believe me I make it a point to show you the proof. Call me the B word if you like but you won’t ever call me a liar.
 
I mentioned I have few friends because of this attitude that frankly I don’t plan on changing which leads me to this situation. The only real friend that I have, my girl who accepts me when no one else did and is my heart, soul, Doug, she’s my family! Well her current fiancé made several passes at me, flirting; brushing up against me saying foul stuff like if I let him hit it he could change my aggressive attitude and nature etc etc. At first I let the fool make it because I ain’t interested and that is my friend so I was thinking it was all innocent until the latter comments. Well I told her and she like a fool in love dismissed it and thought nothing of it. Well my inner Cheater’s detective came out because I felt she didn’t believe me and I gathered up the evidence to show her better than I could tell her. I have plenty! I audio taped him saying lude stuff to me and got photos of him pushing up on other chics. This I phone is a beast.
 
My problem is not in telling her, because trust and believe I’m going to do that. I need help in softening the blow. Some people will think I went too far. Did I go too far to prove my point? Should I have just let this go?
 
Signed
Friends, how many of us have ‘Em