Dear Doug,
Man I got a problem! Me and my girl been together for three years.  She caught me cheating with one of my co-workers this past May.  This so called “affair” lasted until July… it really was nothing more than sex.  Well, as you probably know things got ugly real quick! She confronted my co-worker, they had words, then she and I got into it (several times).  It was bumpy to say the least, until recently.  I thought things had calmed down until my girl stepped to me and has demanded that I quit my job!  Doug Banks, I just cant do that!  I make pretty good money, been on the job for 8 years and I got benefits for me and my children (from previous relationship).  Man I just cant do that…besides who’s gonna quit their job with times the way they are now?  How should I handle this?
Signed
annonymous